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chico's avatar

Recently, I was at a lunch with several academically-oriented women when I disagreed with one of them. They all looked uncomfortable. I looked at her and said, "I can disagree with you and still be your friend." A moment of silence and then, laughter. I had cross the barrier. Now, I refuse to get upset when reading or hearing something I don't agree with and it's working. With enough practice, it doesn't bother me anymore. If you learn to express without trying to convert anyone, it is true free speech. It's attempting to convert someone that is oppressive, bullying, and almost violent. That's what the university library full of Palestinian activists were doing, pushing leaflets on people and turning nasty when they found out that someone didn't agree with them. Free speech is just that. Open, free and non-oppressive.

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Noël King's avatar

Monica, I always feel so clearheaded, hopeful, and inspired after reading one of your articles, and this one is no exception. Thank you so much for everything you do to bring light, clarity, and wisdom to today's most pressing conversations and problems. So grateful for you and that you landed at FAIR!

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